would you be sad or miss the one you don't even know about?
Yes...it be sad to lose another family members (even if i don't even get to know that person...)
20%
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No...(because i never get to know him/her so it really doesn't affect me)
20%
[ 1 ]
maybe? (I Don't Know)
60%
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Total Votes : 5
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Dragon Site Admin
Age: 21
Joined: 21 Nov 2007 Posts: 549
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 2:21 am Post subject: Family Members
im sad to announce that my family members is dead...
okay im going to let you members knows this but you members going to think im heartless or cold...
my cousin "male" died by a motor accident his motorcycle crash into a car (i don't know who crash who first...that pretty much i heard about it...)
he is young and is married..and died just like that...in vietnam....(FYI i live in canada and no im not a canadian)
and to tell you the truth...when i heard about this...i didn't care...now okay look is not beacuse i wish him dead or anything like that..its just because i don't know him and he doesn't know me...hell if i get a chance to know him i probley miss him but to tell you the truth i don't really care...but am sad that a family members is dead...that all i wanted to let you know in this announcement.....
R.I.P Cousin (your in heaven...looking down and watching over your familys protecting them from harms)
Okay, firstly your feelings are perfectly normal. You can only feel loss for those you feel close to and since you dont know him, if you feel guilty you should ask yourself how this will affect those you do know well and that may clarify things for you. _________________ It's Better to Burn Up than Fade Away.
Condolence to you and your family.. family is family, blood is blood, but if you dont know him, its not that big of a deal, cause he wasnt really part of your life.. _________________ know it, live it
Okay, firstly your feelings are perfectly normal. You can only feel loss for those you feel close to and since you dont know him, if you feel guilty you should ask yourself how this will affect those you do know well and that may clarify things for you.
no it made me wonder...what IF i die? what do i leave behide for my family and friends?....that what got me thinkin...about it yestrday..
tupacorionmg wrote:
Condolence to you and your family.. family is family, blood is blood, but if you dont know him, its not that big of a deal, cause he wasnt really part of your life..
yeah...i know the different...if it were my family members that part in my life...that help me through hardship...and suddenly they gone and not here with me anymore...i would cried...(that im not lying...) i admit i would shed a tears for that person who i cared for the most...
(now don't go typing saying "i ain't gonna cry because im a man" that totally bullshit every men cried once in theirs lifetime)
just to let u know..if i read this a little sooner, i too might say i dont care, back den i felt like im really cold, i didnt even cry wen my lolo or lola died, theyre deaths didnt bother me....but recently i felt how nice, how wonderful it is to live even if it is hard.....i even shed tears for my brother whom i thot is dying, ive finally felt how its like to cherish people around u, ur friends and family and even those not concerned with u...i wish i have shown dem before that i cared...if u sympathize for that person u wud feel wat he feels....i even cried for certain girls father..not because her father died but because of the family he left behind.. i couldnt do anything to help..hehehe..it seems i look really weak..heheheh
i think i wud be sad if i know a certain realtive is dead..
i also thot of dying, and wat wud after dat..will they remember me? but i cannot control that..u dont have to leave a legacy so that ull be rembered...just live ur life happy and love those people around u especially those who value u the most.. _________________ smile:)
I totally understand you Dragon. I have always thought I was heartless myself, when my niece passed away. I didn't know much about her, but a couple days later I kinda wished I was at her funeral, to show my respect anyways. Although it may seem heartless, its reality, there are many more people who are heartless.
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